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youre soo good at giving advice (:
i have another question though.
if i leave him alone till like thursday what if he doesnt talk to me then either?
what could i say to him that would make him talk to me or something?
im the really jealous type and what he said about that other girl has got me going crazy. hes like were done leave me alone. im gonna go talk to this girl kate who's 18 and she likes me and i told her no before but now i just texted her so leave me alone bye.
like the way he said it was really weird. idk why he had to tell me her name or her age? it was just weird.
im sure she does like him but i dont understand him. like why did he have to tell me that? becuase if he really cared he would still talk to me and stuff ya know?
ahh idk what to dooo!
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we're so alike hahaa. im like that too :]
okay, so for your first question.. if he doesnt want to talk to you.. make him.
give him options, turn the tables and make him realize that if he doesnt talk to you that YOURE the one whos gone and there will be nothing he can do about it because when you leave, you leave for good. if hes trying to make you jealous and mad, you're going to have to send it right back at him.
or..
you could just tell him that he has no choice and that youre both going to have to talk about it sooner or later and it would be better to get it over with now because you care about and him and youre not going to stop until you both can talk about it because he might be "done" but youre not.
or...
you could just tell him that youll wait for him to talk to you, but youre not going to wait FOR him and youre going to get on with your life, just like he is.
i think that with your boyfriend, first you have to be sympathetic with him and very apologetic to get him to think about things.. but if he still hasnt caved and talked to you, then you have to be rough and tough with him. stand your ground. he'll panic if he thinks that youre the one whos officially done.. because now he'll take you seriously when you tell him that youre gone and he lost you. [not the other way around] you gotta kind of either scare him into talk to you, guilt him into talking to you, or anger him to get him to talk to you. but somehow, someway, he WILL talk to you. hes not over it, and youre not either. believe me, he has alot to say, and i know you do too, so itll happen. i know it sucks, but you gotta be patient.
you were together for 6 months.. he knows you. and he knows that if hes telling you about this girl, it will make you jealous. and im assuming this girl is either older than you or younger than you .. so he definetly thinks that age she is will make you even more jealous because he probably thinks that age = experience and it also means he thinks itll make you assume that she'll be more willing to do things with him since he said "no" to her before and now hes like giving her what she wants so she'll be all for it. thats basically why he told you that information.. to make you jealous and to make it seem like that he is most definetly hooking up with someone. which is probably not true, hes just trying to get back at you.
and i get how you think that if he still cared he would still talk to you and stuff, but that is gonna be hard for him since talking to you would remind him 24/7 that he lost you and that its HIS fault that he lost you and that now other guys can have you. it will also hurt him because he feels like you betrayed him, because obviously when he broke up with you, he didnt actaully want to.. but he realized that too late.. and it took you hooking up with another guy for him to realize that. he does care about you. if he didnt, he wouldnt be trying to hurt you like you apparently hurt him.
i know you dont know what to do, but just relax and take a few deep breaths. hang out with friends, vent.. but keep your mind off him. [i know, sounds impossible, right?] its not though. just turn your phone off.. i know that its tempting to constantly check it to see if hes texted or called you, but leave it in like a box soewhere in your room for a couple of hours. go cook or something. just hold off until thursday, and then see what happens. and if he does talk to you before then, dont reply back instantly like you were sitting by the phone waiting for him to contact you.. that'll give him cocky-ness. he WANTS you to be going out of your mind right now, so dont give him the satisfaction.. make him go out of his mind wondering if you finally gave up. then he'll talk to you.
good luck and you can do it; stay strong girl. everything will be okay :] hope i helped and im always here if you need anything at alll. keep me posted :] xxo.
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