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hey girlll.
hey. thanks soo much for the advice.
i was being reallly annoying to him yesterday on trying to get him to talk to me but hes wayyy to stubborn and stronger then i am so of course he ignored me :[
i already texted him twice this morning. ahhh i just want him back and i dont want things to be like this.
i really wish i could go back to yesterday and redo everything i said. we just got back on good terms and we were going to get back together sooner or later and my stupid self told him that and then he just blew up on me.
one thing that really upset me is hes like leave me alone its over so just drop it. and then im like wow whatever why did you even say you love me becuase obviously that was a huge lie and hes like yup so leave me alone.
that really hurt. this whole 6 months in our relationship he has been a jerk and ive put up with it. becuase when things are good, they are really good, but when there bad there bad. and he told me he could never trust me again. and i dont understand why. we werent together. he broke up with me. i was single. i could do whatever i want.
this wednesday is our 7 month and im reallly sad about that :[
when do you think is a goood time to try and talk to him? even thhough i dont think he will ever talk to me again..
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no problem girl :] thats what i am here for.
and trust me, i know how you feel with the whole.. when things are good, theyre really good, but when things are bad, theyre really bad. thats exactly how its like in my relationship. and i know how you feel when you say you put up with it.. i did too.
it sucks, i so wish there was a rewind and fast forward button in life. but theres not :[ you just have to go with the flow and live with no regrets; just lessons learned. thats the motto i live by.
and i know that you really want to talk to him, but i say wait until maybe wednesday or thursday to contact him again. he needs a few days to cool off because if he doesnt want to talk to you.. he wont. and since hes stubborn hes going to need a few days to clear his mind. [my boyfriend is stubborn too]
but you have to remember, that he WAS hurt, thats where his anger is coming from. its easier for guys to be angry than upset. boys REALLY dont like to be upset, they view it as a weakness, and anger just helps them hide what they truly feel. so just know that he is UPSET inside, hes just hiding it behind a mask of anger. when he told you to leave it alone, drop it, its over.. he knew that would hurt you alot. then when you said the whole him loving you was a lie thing, he said yup it was because hes pissed.
but i think hes pissed more at himself than he is at you because he let you go and you actually let it go. like i said before, you didnt wait around for him and sit crying watching sad movies. sure, maybe getting drunk and making out with another guy was a mistake you didnt want to make, but he shouldnt have let you go if he didnt want that to happen.. since it would eventually happen. he knows that, and i dont think he wants to realize it because then this whole thing would be his fault. guys hate taking the blame for things. and he overreacted. you guys ARENT together. none of this is your fault.. even if you thought there was a chance you would both get back together, youd never know the exact time that would be, and good for you for not waiting around.
this is WHY beyonce made that song single ladies haha :] it fits your situation so well. you should look up the lyrics. for real. it will make you feel better :]
and i promise, he will talk to you again. he wont be silent forever. and neither will you. you're both going to have to talk it out sometime. but he just needs some space right now.. and just a little reminder.. youre still single. and until youre no longer single.. you can do what you want, its not a crime.
good luck ! tell me how it goes, i really hope things go your way and i hope i helped :] you can always send me an inbox if you need to talk or anything :] xxo.
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