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tell him i love him


Question Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 1:34 am

I like one of my best friends we are now in separate states i cant stop thinking about him i email him often vice versa i think he likes me i dont know but i avoided a big problem by telling him i was told he likes me i need to tell him how i feel but how can i? i am 12 people think these problems dont matter but they do. i ask him who he likes he says people.i ask what girl he says girls. what do i do?

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TeenSoup answered Sunday January 24 2010, 1:46 am:
For me, being twelve was not too long ago, and I understand what it means to really like someone. I had a friend that moved away and I really liked them. I think I loved him, in fact. I cried and cried, and I didn't even get to say goodbye. I still feel lucky, however, because one of my best guy friends is still in touch with them, so I am trying to get a hold of them. You're lucky that you're still talking to him.

I know it's VERY hard on you, and I know that people underestimate 12 year olds. (BTW - You might want to reconsider being on this site, it's for 13 year olds and up, so come back later.) We still have very complex emotions, even though you aren't quite teenagers yet. I'm sure you're very mature because you still like this guy even after he moved. You aren't shallow, I'm guessing too.

I have a question - is there ANY way that you will be able to see him? Do you want to? If you are probably going to see him, that's great - but if not, take a chance. If you probably won't see him ever again, tell him. Tell him how you developed feelings for him from the last few months that he was here. Tell him that you understand if it's awkward, but that you still are his best friend, and those feelings will never change.

He might not reply. He might reply - with a big email talking about how much he likes YOU too.

I have to go, but definitely tell me what happens!

-TeenSoup

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