Question Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 11:11 pm
I'm 15 but last Saturday this guy that I havent talked to in a while but have always been in love with we had sex and alot of things happened that has been bothering me.. but ever since that day i can't sleep.. im exhausted and i lie awake in my bed replaying everything that happened until its time for me to go up and go to school i feel like im going crazy because no matter what i do i cannot sleep and if i do fall asleep thoughts of that night wake me up.. what is going on with me !
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? just_ask_me answered Thursday January 21 2010, 9:45 pm: Hmm.. the big question is, do you regret what happened with this guy? I know, I know.. you probably don't want someone preaching to you about being too young.. but 15 IS young to have sex, you have to admit that. Emotional maturity does not level out until about 25, sometimes later. So our emotions are running wild and at 15, the emotional consequences of having sex are high. But anyway, I hope you were safe and that you are okay physically. You talk about alot of things that happened and that they are bothering you.. did something else happen that night? Did he hurt you or treat you horrible? Have you talked to him since that night? Maybe you need to put your feelngs out there so you feel better. I can't read your mind, so I don't know what exactly is eating you up inside :[
I suggest first, talking to this guy. See if he can help you answer some questions or you can atleast get your feelings out in the open. If you do regret what happened, that's understandable. Things happen and people make mistakes, and we learn from them and it makes us smarter, wiser and stronger. Do not let that bother you! Do you have a family member or even a good friend that you can trust? Getting your feelings & emotions out to someone you can count on will make you feel better and they can give you advice and help take some of this heavy load you are carrying on your back. I hope everything works out. [ just_ask_me's advice column | Ask just_ask_me A Question ]
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