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Is it rape if....
I was wondering if it is rape if you get fingered by a guy even if you tell him not too? because i was making out with my b/f (im a female) ands I kept on saying no "bobby" no and then he started to breathe hard and the look in his eye was evil. I was scared and I am still scared to go near a guy or even 2 hug a guy. I broke up with him even though I thought I loved him. so my 2 questions are
1.Is this considered rape/sexual assault
2.Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him
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ADDITIONAL: Age doesn't matter here. Would you hide the fact a 50-year-old man touched you or assaulted you regardless or maybe even a same aged person. The ACT they did is still to be punished for and you'll be the LAST person your parents will ever direct blame.
Whether he's 19 and you're 16 or if he's older than that doesn't fucking matter excuse my language. You have to tell and make sure he never has opportunity to do it to another girl perhaps even younger than you. Guys like this keep doing it and I bet he's been doing it too long. Tell your parents--it's the only choice.
ORIGINAL:
It's an unwanted sexual assault provided you said NO and was in no way did you give consent. The answer to #2 is obvious.
You should tell your parents even if embarrassed that this guy forced this on you and you said NO. Let the adults handle what happens to him. He's got a problem and likely did this or still does to other girls who say NO to that and far worse. You know that there's secrets you shouldn't keep from adults and this is one of them.
If you're scared of him and guys in general than you'll be needed some kind of counseling (professional not one of these school types) to work through what happened and empower yourself so you aren't forever victimized by it.
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