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long distance boyfriend.
he hasn't talked to me in three days becuase he wanted a break.
and today I texted him and I'm like tell me if were broken up and he said yes.
and I'm like why? and he's like because were too far away I can't do this
and I'm like well thanks for not telling me. and he's like I just decided. and I'm like can we still be friends and he's like I was hoping we could be.
and I'm like yeah so I'm guessing I don't get to see you in march or when I come down there ( I have family who lives by him )
and he's like maybe if you really want to.,
and I'm like of course I do. and he's like well I don't know maybe.
and I'm like ok well just text me when you want to talk to me I guess :/
and he's like ok bye.
im heartbroken. I don't know waht to do.
i feel like I should say something to him. but I don't know whaat
help meee :[
i also just asked him if we will ever be together again and he said idk maybe
and im like dont forget about me and hes like never
and im like ugh why did you do this. im miserable and he never said anything back :/
idk what to do. im miserable. reallly miserable.
what should i say to him. i want like closure or something.
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It really sucks when someone else makes the decision to end a relationship without any input from you.
First off, it wasn't necessarily anything negative to do with you. From the sounds of it, it was more the distance thing that bothered him rather than anything you were doing wrong. So short of moving to be closer, there wasn't anything you could do to change his mind on this.
Just because you're no longer dating doesn't mean you still can't be great friends. My first boyfriend from when I was 17-18 and I are still really good friends 5 years later! If you can put the dating past behind you, you can still have an amazing friendship.
It's all about pulling up your socks and carrying on with life. Consider the relationship done and gone. Don't wait around for him to call and take you back. If it happens, great, but don't depend on that. Throw yourself into your friendships, your family, and yourself! Take up new hobbies (a great way to meet new people) that you've always wanted to try.
Keep yourself busy. Time heals all wounds, as they say. There will be plenty more men in your future... it's just a matter of getting there.
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