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moving on
ok, so i was with my ex bf for a year, he's the boy i lost my virginity too and was basically my first everything so the break up was really really hard to deal with, anyway, we broke up at the beggining of September, so its been a few months and sense we broke up i've talked to a few guys but always in the back of my head while talking to them was the fact that i knew i was just trying to get over my ex. So naturally none of them went any farther than a friend. Just like a week ago however i started talking to a new boy and things are going really good. like, things are different with him, i actually have feelings for him, and i'm not just talking to him to make myself feel better. The thing is, i'm terrified, i'm so scared to put myself back out there again after being hurt so bad the last time. I wanna know how to, not get over the past because i know its not that easy, but i guesse i just need some help on what to do. Should i just not talk to guys for a while till i'm not scared anymore ? Or is this something that i just need to get over with time.. please help :(
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If you really like this guy then go for it hun!
Just go slow and do whatever feels right for you. Don't think too far ahead into the future, think more for the now. If in a few weeks you decide your just not ready yet then its fine, you tell this guy your sorry but your just not ready for a relationship just yet. You might find that in a month you really like this guy and want to be in a serious relationship.
Every girl goes through this so always talk to your friends or someone close you trust if need help. You don't need to do anything your not comfortable doing, and if your not comfortable then tell him that.
It's hard but just take a deep breath and do what you think you should do and what will make you happy. :)
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There's nothing you can do about you getting back together with your ex what's done is done not every
boy is the same just because your last relationship
wasn't the best doesn't exactly mean that things could go wrong there's always a possiblity of that happening but you can't think negatively you've got to think postively and be confident i think you shouldn't talk to boys for a while seeing as you don't seem confident and you seem unsure of what to do once you feel fully ready to talk and you aren't scared anymore then i say go for it it's worth a shot but until then it's probably best you don't talk yes i think you'll overcome this within time(:
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