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new girl:\
15/f
so, im the new girl at my school. im a freshman in high school.ni went to my old school for 9 years and knew everyone in my grade. we were small, but comfy cozy, i could have stayed there, but i decided to switch. i had lots of friends and lots of guy friends. i was really outgoing, and that was just my personality. everyone knew me so i could act however i wanted without anyone saying anything rude. ive never been a new student before so i really didnt know how to act. somehow, these 2 girls who i thought were my friends, started to hate me, and now i feel awkward around them and whenever i do something, i always get a feeling they'll find out and judge me about it, when at my old school, i didnt have to worry about that stuff. i want to be friends with them, but they are extremely bitchy and i dont know what i should say to them. they think i started stuff with them, when i really didnt. but heres what i really need some help on. im not friends with a lot of guys at my school, and its making me feel like ive lost my outgoinging"ness". lots of my friends are friends with guys, but i never put myself out there anymore because im afraid what people will think. i dont know how to get me out of this. its been worrying me for awhile now. i know it takes time to make friends, but i really want some guy friends. i dont know if this takes a long time or whatnot, im just a little nervous. i never hangout with anyone from school, just friendsfrom my old school, is this a bad thing? how do i appraoch that i wanna hangout with friends from school? im feeling a little bit of regret for leaving my old school, i kind of wish i stayed. sometimes i really like it, and sometimes i dont, like now. i dont know how to tell my mom this..
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hey sweety dont worry about them. those girls are probly jelous of you. their is always gonna be someone who wants to put you down and when our young you feel liike any little think is the end of the world and i completely understand how you feel but telling those girls off is one thing that you are gonna need to do now or later. they are one of your problems of feeling nervouse. and about talking to guys.. dont worry what any girl thinks make guy friends. guys are shy.. they act like they know everything but most guys wont talk to you unless you talk to them first. try to make silly conversation.. show your bubbly side and you will see that guys love it. and in my personal oppinion i wouldnt leave just becasue those girls are bothering you. and if you dont want to start anything with them the next time they tell you something just tell them that you came here to start new and fressh and dont need there snotty attitudes to ruin your new start also let them know in a stern voice that you dont want any problems but they need to back off or you will tell a teacher because they keep harrasing you. i hope i truely helpped you be carefull and remember to just be yourself. :) -nina.
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