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I was too late.
I am 17 years old, female, and a senior in high school.
So I met this guy over the summer at a party. He was 20 and a friend of my cousin's, so she introduced us. That night, we hit it off and he ended up asking me out on a date.
That date, led to many more.
We dated that whole summer, but for some reason, I wasn't as happy as I thought I'd be.
I remember wanting to break things off with him, and I eventually did. Right before summer ended.
I broke his heart.
School started, and things went back to normal. Except...I began to regret my decision of breaking things off.
During the months of august-november we saw each other randomly at parties since he was my cousin's friend.
And every time, he would tell me how much he wanted me back and we would hold hands and kiss. But nothing ever came out of it.
As much as I wanted to put things back together, there was something holding me back.
Now, he has a girlfriend. I haven't spoken to him in about two months, the only details I know of him are through my cousin.
He didn't even really like the girl when they first started dating, but he apparently told my cousin that "things are getting serious now."
I wanted to tell him how I still feel about him, but since I found this out, I know I can't.
Should I move on with my life?
My cousin doesn't think they will last forever, and she tells me that one day we will end up being together. I'm just scared that he will fall in too deep with this girl and forget all about me. I was too late. And I don't know what to do now. I would really like a guy's perspective on this. Thanks.
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Ok first of all a lot of people get into relationships they fall hard then they get scared and
Break things off its normal especially if this is a first love and sometimes people just need space to think about what is important to them. It sounds like that you still like this guy and I think that all that you have been through with him I think you owe it to your self to find out if he still feel’s the same way about you still. Sit Down with him and find out what he thinks just the two of you maybe ask him to go to coffee with you to loosen up any tension and most of all be your self and tell him how you feel about him. I am a firm believer what’s meant to be is meant to be and if its meant for you to be together in the future which sounds like it is, and then it will happen. Most of all is patients.
I hope this helped write me back if you have any questions
Thanks
Tim
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