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i need to know what to do should i leave him or stay
hi .. ive been dating this guy for 5 years now im now 21 years old and im starting to get the feeling that i done even know if i really want to be with him and its getting confusing i feel like our relationship is so systematic nothing new is happening and i dont know if i really want to spend the rest of my life with him he is a good person and everything but i feel like im missing alot of things i dont feel loved hes not good at showing emotions and i feel like i need to feel in love not just kknow it as a fact im afraid of leaving him then regretting it and i dont want to hurt him we should be getting engaged next year im thinking maybe then ill feel happy but what if i dont i really dont know what to do plz answer as soon as possible
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What you need to do is make a pro/con list. Write down the things you lke about the relationship and the things you don't like about it. From what I am reading you have more cons than pros You seem to want to move forward with a relationship while he seems to want to keep things the same or monotone. For someone in their fourties that would be ok but for someone your age, it is kind of boring. You need to have fun and let loose, it doesn't seem like you will get that sort of thing from this guy. Feeling bad about brekaing up with him and the regrets therafter make you human and also a very good person. In this kind of situation you need to figure what you want and what you want alone...leaving everyone else out of your decision. This is because what makes him happy doesn't necessarily mean it will make you happy too. If wanting to try something new is something that you truly want to do then you won't regret leaving him. Don't force yourself to be happy when your not. Evaluate your pro/con list very careful and think about what you really want.
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