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this is really embarassing to ask... its about down there


Question Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 3:39 am

Okay so I'm gonna be completley full out honest. I know how girls always say they think something is too big or small and apparently its normal but I really thing that the lips on my vagina are to big. Like I thought they should be pink and sometimes they are but other times they can be like a dark brown and I don't know why. I don't have sex and I never have. I'm 15 I'm 5'7 and I weigh 130 pounds. Its always been like that and yeah. Idk it really bothers me and I'm really insecure about it. Is there anyway to make them smaller ? Please helppp

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pseudophun answered Saturday January 2 2010, 10:44 am:
Actually, a brown color is normal for white and latina girls' vaginas... It's a matter of blood flow, and it just means your vajayjay is getting enough blood. Nothing to really worry about there.

As for your supposedly enormous lips... There's not much you can do about it at 15. I'm sure they're fine, because I, as a bisexual have seen many a set of lips in my time, and they all just fit the girl they're on... but when you're older, or if you can con your parentals into it, there's surgery you can do. It's pointless and it hurts like a MFer... but you can do it if this is really something that's going to emotionally scar you for life.

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WiseOldUnicorn answered Saturday January 2 2010, 8:56 am:
I promise you, there's nothing wrong with your vagina. There's a LOT of girls that feel like their vaginal lips are too big--I used to be one of them--but it's perfectly normal. Vaginas come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. And if you're insecure because you're worried what a future partner might think about it, don't worry. Guys are nowhere near as picky about such things as we girls tend to think they are.

This site has a lot of info that might be comforting if you're concerned about such things: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

It DOES have explicit pictures of vaginas, so be forewarned. You might want to avoid it if that's going to make you uncomfortable. But it can be comforting to see some of what other women have, so you can realize how normal your own is. The same site also has a gallery elsewhere with a bunch of different pictures so you can see how much variety there really is in what's normal.

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