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my boyfriends agenst my smokeing!
lately iv been smokeing and my boyfriend doesnt approve of it. sometimes it gets 2 the degree 2 where he storms off and wont talk 2 me 4 a day or 2. im scared he might break up with me over it.how do i try 2 make it up 2 him...i luv him and when i try 2 ask him questions his answer 4 everything is i dont know! how do i get things the way they use 2 be?
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Okay, I know you said that he won't answer your questions, but you should sit down with him and lay it all out on the table. Ask him why it's a big deal. Offer to smoke one coverage less a day and to not do it around him. Show him you actually care. About the storms off part. Before you get down to the smoking issue just say hear me out, or we need to talk. This is important and we need to deal with it now. If you love him you will be okay with making sacrifices like smoking less or not when your with/near him. It's a personal choice he made and maybe something happened when he was little thAt flturned him off from smoking. Basicly, you guys need to talk it out there is no sence on loosing your relationship over this. Just understand his point of veiw Nd respect it don't say it's wrong just because it's not what you want to hear or because it's not your point of veiw. Also, we all know smokings bad foe your health. So it's okay to smoke less or try to quit! Although you do not have to quit for him the choice is really up to you.
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