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theres this guy...
hey , so theres this guy thats been one of my good friends for 2 years. and we KNOW we both like each other. alot. but i've heard he still likes his ex. we would act like we're together, eve though we're not. when he liked me alot last year, he didnt want to ruin our friendship. but now since i want us to be together, i dont know what i should do. help please !
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im gonna keep my answer short and simple because i know you have a life you whant to get back to.
simply wait a few days and wait for some signs however if know signs happen in the past 3-4 days then you have to tell him.
good look with everything.
love Miss Comunication. x
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Well I was in the exact same situation! I really fell for my bestfriend and he had just broken up with his ex. I thought it would be okay for us to get together but he said he wasn't ready. Anyhow long story short I waited and waited for him to get over her and he waited and waited for me to tell me I liked him and now we're not friends and he's dating his ex again but everyone tells me he still talks about me constantly! Lesson here is don't let the moment pass by! Either way you might lose your bestfriend but the reward is way greater. You could be more than bestfriends, you could have a real connection! IF your friendship is strong enough than you'll still be friends if he rejects you, although from what you've written I doubt he will. Just be straight up and ask him "Hey so what's the deal? I like you and I wanna be together etc." Don't let the moment slip pass because you'll regret it! So maybe you'll lose your friendship but if your friendship is going to end so easily, especially when you both KNOW you like each other than it can't have been that strong in the first place... I really hope you're really happy and that everything works out better than what happened with me! I personally can tell you I really regret never asking him about it again! Goodluck! :)
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