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shall i apologize
Hi,
shall i apologize to this guy i didnt realize my actions were that bad i thought he was a playa so acted in this manor. i didnt mean to push him away.
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Even if he was a player, the way you acted would still have been completely wrong.
You were used, but you also used him. And then when you got pissed with him you used your husband to embaress and confront him. Whatever wrong things he might have done to you, you bullied him, lied to him, invented drama when you didn't get your way and then shamed him.
So you got exactly what you deserved when he decided you weren't worth his time anymore. You weren't.
Go ahead and apologize for your actions. They were really low and you certainly have plenty to apologize for.
But don’t be stupid about it:
Just because you apologize doesn’t mean he’s going to speak to you again. That’s over. You two aren’t friends, and you shouldn’t be friends.
Frankly, you owe your husband a much bigger apology. I'm surprised you are so concerned with this man's feelings. This man who think is a player and who you feel used you. Why is he the one who gets all your thoughts and worries? I would suggest if you have any desire to make your marriage work, you simply forget about your affair, and devote all this energy you are wasting on it to earning your husband’s forgiveness.
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