ok so last year i had my first kiss. it happened while we were kinda playing around, and i kissed up his chin and our lips sorta met and we kissed. i cant really remember how it went though! i know we kissed just lips at first and then put his tongue in my mouth and i followed his lead.
but i cant remember how it was tho for the life of me!
now im talking to another guy, and im probably going to be kissing him sometime soon. we have been talking and have liked each other for a while, and im really worried about making a good first impression. he has kissed plenty of other girls before though, and i have only kissed one guy and dont even remember how i did it or what it was like!?! this was a year ago. and even after the kiss it felt VERY surreal.
im so scared that im going to kiss bad when i kiss this guy. especially because in my firstkiss we didnt really lean in slowly or anything,and i know that this kiss will be like this. idk how to kiss someone normally! ah!
i dont know. maybe im just overeacting and freaking out for now good reason. but i really really REALLY want to make it seem like im a good kisser and that i know what i am doing. but hes had way more expericence then me, considering i dont even remember how to kiss.
If you really like this guy and you would like to kiss him. I would try to forget about the last kiss you had!
Every kiss will be a completely different experience!
The more you stress about it the more nervous you will become. Just relax and stop worrying about it.
I would give him a soft gentle kiss (no tounge) first time around (leave him wanting more). As things progress between you both then you can start giving a more passionate kiss.
oliepath answered Wednesday December 16 2009, 7:54 pm: First of all this is definetly not stupid. at all. i had my first kiss at 12. and it was kinda random too. but when it happened again..it just kinda came naturally. Usually the guys are the ones who part your lips during a peck and slip their tongue in your mouth. During that time go with the flow. Do what u feel is right. Trust me it will just come normally. For example i always have the urge to put my arms around my bf's neck when kissing...its a habit i guess. ^-^
hope i helped at least a bit.
xoxo-Olie/MiiCHii/Lady Marmalade
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sweeethoney answered Tuesday December 15 2009, 11:58 am: ive had a lot of kissing in my experience, but everytime i dont for a while im like 'oh no ! i forgot how' haha.
just like you followed the guys lead the first time, do it this time as well. you just start off with a few pecks, then let him take it to makin-out. just follow his speed and pace... but if he goes farther then youd like him to then make sure to stop it, you dont wanna get uncomfortable.
youll do fine :) it usually will just come naturally ! if you freak out it will make it a lot harder for you to go with the flow of things. just dont stress it
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