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Question Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 6:11 pm

aww thanks!!!....well he is always telling me to go to his house..but i know he just wants me to go to his house only to have sex..i dont go and he gets kinda mad...i do want to go because i wanna see him but then in the other hand something tells me no to go..and speacially i have to got to his house at 12 or 1am in the night...thats something he doesnt even cares..wat happenes if something happenes to me walking to his house at that time, once i sneeked out of my house at 3am but i got home safely even though we live right there but thats not an easy thing to do. i have to go to his house at that time because he doesnt want his parents to know about what we doing...but i havent gone ovedere because am kinda scared :(

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WyzeLizzy answered Sunday December 13 2009, 10:38 pm:
I've totally been in this situation, back in the day...
When you're young, you sometimes don't take the time to think things through, but you seem to have thought about the consequences that could happen when you are out in the streets late at night. Kinda sad to think that he's only thinking of himself and his 'sexual' needs, and not your safety.
I have to say it's not a good thing that he controls things, like you know? making you go over there so late and hiding what you guys are doing. It's not even healthy that he tries to make you feel bad if you don't go. Like some would say, "don't let him have you like that, gurl"...you know what I mean...WE as women should typically have the control, u know? Like we have what they want, they shouldn't be able to call the shots...Take that into consideration next time he calls on you for the booty ;-)
It's a respect factor too, for you and your body...
This will prove to be a learning experience with your relationships to come.
Keep me posted :-)

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