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Will it ever be more than this?
16/f
So it started out as just a friendly thing, this kid named James commented on one of my statuses on facebook. He said that he liked the band i quoted, and we started talking about how awesome they are. A few minutes later, i get a facebook IM and we continued talking there. After a couple of hours, he asked for my number and i gave it to him. He used to go to my school, but when he was a senior i was a freshman so i didn't really know him that well. But i had friends who were good friends with him so it's all cool. He's 19 and i'm 16 so theres a bit of an age difference, but i don't really care about that part. He seemed a little taken aback when he found out my age but all in all, he didn't seem to really care. So we began texting everyday, and all day. He told me he thought I was cute, and i told him the same. After about a week or so, the little compliments progressed and stuff and we became really flirty. But aside from being flirty, we also got pretty close. I mean, i guess that's what happens when you talk to someone everyday. So then i guess you can say he started to get a little horny.... and he would send stuff like "If you were here, we wouldn't be bored ;)" or other stuff like that. Again, i really didn't care cause i kind of wanted him too. Aside from that, he's really sweet and we're definatley more than friends. We've had some pretty deep conversations, and he understands a lot of the things most people don't. He sort of gets me, and when we hung out, he was so sweet to me. But theres just one little problem...
I know that his main intention is to hook up with me, and that was my main intention too.... not gonna lie. But we've been talking for almost two months now and i can't help but notice that things are sort of different than they first were. He's not as horny anymore, and he doesn't say sexual things a lot anymore. From time to time he does, but he's being sweet a lot more.... and we're pretty good friends. We act like we're going out but he hasn't officially asked me out yet...
He told me he really likes me, and i told him i really like him but he hasn't asked me out yet. I don't know if his intention is to go our with me or hook up with me.... or both?
I mean, like i said... my first intention was to hook up with him and that's it. But i've developed intense feelings for him and i know that if we hook up it will mean something to me. I need to know if his feelings are the same, because he's showing it. But he also flirts with other girls....
So i guess i just need to know where our relationship stands and what other people think of this.
Oh and by "hooking up" i don't mean sex.... cuz i know it's illegal for a minor to have sexual relations with someone over 18.
What do you think?
Whats our relationship?
Should i ask if he feels the same way?
Help?
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i think you should definetly talk to him. you're never going to know what he wants unless he tells you. you said you guys have been having heart to heart conversations and you talk everyday all day so hopefully it shouldn't really be a problem. he probably wants to know where you guys' relationship is going too but he may be afraid to say something. so i say you just ask him what his intentions are. if i was getting that close to a guy i would want to know what was going on too.
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