me and this kid have had quite the steamy history. at times he'd be really into me, and then i'd be really into him. at one point he said he would leave his girlfriend for me. finally i realized that i really do love him a lot and i want to be with him so i told him. all he said was "i just need time, right now isnt the best time in my life, i do care about you i just need time." what should i do, and how long do you think he will need? im a very impatient person, i just need to know what i should do!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lacexface answered Wednesday December 2 2009, 11:53 am: For guys, if they WANT to be with you, they'll be with you. They won't tell you they need more time unless they're into both their girlfriend and you, but it seems like he probably won't leave her and that's a typical guy thing. Some of the time they look to other girls for sex, hook-ups, etc if they're not getting it from their girlfriends. The second they start getting it from their girlfriends they stop looking else where.
If I were you, don't chase him. Let him come to you if you really want this guy. Guys want things they feel as though they can't have, if you play hard to get he'll be more interested. They hate clingy. [ lacexface's advice column | Ask lacexface A Question ]
sia answered Tuesday December 1 2009, 4:16 am: he asked for time so id give him time.if you rush it then he might run away.just give him time until he comes to you.dont txt or call him untill he does it first.give him 2weeks max with out having any contact with him [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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