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he thinks i don't care
im sorry if this is too long but thanks for reading if you do :-)
to start with i met a guy back in may, we met through friends and we got along really well. we were friends for the first few weeks but then we started flirting and kissing. i really started to develop feelings for this guy, i wasnt in love but i really liked him. his friends told me that he really liked me, but he hardly told me. he was really confusing at times, sometimes he would be in a mood with me (and his friends) for no reason.
we fell out a few times but we usually made up a few days later. but not this time, we havent spoke in over a month. we fell out because he said i only speak to him when im bored. this really isnt true, maybe it comes across that way but ive tried to explain to him that i do really like him, but i dont want to call/email him all of the time because i dont want to seem desperate/needy. thats just who i am. but he really doesnt believe me. i saw him 3 weeks ago in a shop and i said hi and he said hi back but thats been it, i know he doesnt want to speak to me else he would of called me, right?
he has told me before that he really liked me but i annoyed him when i just ignored him for 2 weeks, but its not just down to me to make the effort and call, its up to him too! i dont really want to contact him but i know i will see him again, we live in a pretty small town and our friends are friends with eachother so we always happen to see eachother, what should i say to him? or should i just give up? do you think hes just using this as a way to stop seeing me?
thanks
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I have to tell you that your situation is very awkward. I been through this even now. I really wish I could give you the very best advice..So here it goes.
Try talking to him like a good friend. treat him like you treat your gal pals. I know it would feel awkward...but you could have a steady friendship and it would be less awkward 2 call/txt/talk to him or vice versa.
If everything goes will, maybe there could be a chance that you could be together.
Hope I helped alittle.
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This guy sounds completely arrogant. He sounds like he just wants a girls who is going to follow after him like a little puppy dog. I'm sure he did like you at first, but when he realized that you have more respect for yourself as a young women like that, he lost interest. I don't care how old-fashioned it sounds. It is not appropriate for a young woman to be the one setting up dates, making all the calls and texts, and confessing all the feelings. You'll know if a guy is right for you if he thinks enough of you that he would pursue and look forward to contacting you on a regular basis. Your instincts are right on the money on this guy. Forget about him. When you see him in social circles, be polite and friendly. There's no reason you can't have fun with other people when he's around, but you've pretty much pinpointed that he's a jerk. The best revenge is to show him you are confident in yourself and have no need to follow some arrogant jerk around like a lost, sick puppy.
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