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i dont know what i wont....
so this boy i like at my school who is in the year above me and he knows i like him. i really badly wont to ask him out but im not sure because if he said no then i would be heartbroken bt if he said yes i would be worried becasuse i dont know him that well or any of his friends and i would be worrid that if we went out to the park or something we wouldnt have anything to talk about and it would be really awkward and also im he likes to be woht his friends alott and i dont really know them at all and if we wnt out to the parc his friends would end up coming along aswell. so im just dont know what to do any help please ?
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just like the other person said, if you don't take risks in life, how will you succeed at anything?
I think you should go for it :)
if he says yes- and you guys end up being alone, thats good :) take advantage of that. its okay to be nervous, because that means that you care about what happens. just be yourself. if he doesn't like you for who you are, he's not worth it. you don't want to be in a relationship with anyone who makes you feel like you can't be who you are. so just be yourself and ask him questions about his favorite hobbies, sports, food, etc. don't get too deep in the conversation like about politics or anything... that could ruin the moment. If his friends happen to join along.. thats also ok! because its a new thing for you 2 and maybe he feels nervous too. Have you ever noticed that when people are nervous, they always want to be with friends because their friends help them calm themselves down. so its not a bad thing if they tag along. just treat them with respect and hang out with them! even if you dont know them, get to know them! ask each person what they like to do for fun and just let loose and talk. let the conversations flow. dont ever stop and think about what you're going to say. just talk and be yourself. again, if they don't like you for who you are, its not even worth spending time with them.
if he happens to say no- don't feel bad. he's probably a jerk anyways. I think anybody should say yes and give a person a chance, even if they dont know them. you know that saying that's like- don't judge a book by its cover? its the same in this situation.. nobody should look at another person and say "no i dont want to be in a relationship with them" because they don't really know the person on the inside and it doesn't make sense to dislike someone, without even knowing them. just remember that there's PLENTY of fish in the sea!! I dont know how old you are, but i'm 17 and i've only had 2 serious relationships, and also hooked up with a few guys. so i have a little experience with them. If you think about it... there's SOOOOO many guys out there. think about how many are in your town... now quadroople that. thats how many there are in this world. you never know what could happen, you could move one day and there will be soo many different types of guys for you to meet. so even if he does blow you off, just shake it off and think "hey! he's just 1 guy out of 999999999. i can find other guys. maybe even a better one than him!" just be strong and hold your head up high. i know everything seems like the end of the world when you're young, but its really not... you're just begining to live life. so live it up to the fullest. you don't want to look back at your life and think "wow what the hell was i doing??"
-i hope i helped :)
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Heres the thing. I believe that if you don't take risks in life you don't succeed so come on just get some guts and ask him if he'd like to do something after school.If you have nothing to talk to him about try talking to him about his fav thing to do his hobbies,family,his future i don't know maybe his goals trust me if it was meant to be everything will turn out fine.And if he says no then maybe he just wasn't worth it. GOOD LUCK!!!
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