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Terrible Friends
So, recently have been having problems with some of my closest friends; one of which is my best friend of 3 years.
One of them, who is not as close, gets angry with me about nothing, then when I bring it up, he calls himself an idiot and tells me not to listen to him when he gets angry with me. But, it happens so often, I'm not sure what to think anymore.
Another is dating a close friend of mine. He spends a lot of time with my best friend, and once I caught them holding hands in a haunted house. He still hasn't broken up with my friend and insists that nothing is going on.
My best friend is always hanging out with another friend of mine and with my other friend's boyfriend. At a school Halloween dance she spent all of her time with another friend and barely looked me in the eye. I've been sick lately, though, and she called me yesterday to tell me that she hoped I felt better soon.
Please, someone help me. I've tried talking to them about it and it's not working. Thanks to any and all that give my plea for help any thought.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
For the first friend, I'd say that for just a little while, give him some space. He might be going through something in his mind that no one really understands. He'll come around. :)
For friend number 2, I'd say to keep an I on him. The way you describe the haunted house issue, he seems like a player to me. Just be careful not to get too involved.
Finally, for your best friend, tell her that you feel like she's been avoiding you. If she says that nothings wrong, you can try one thing. Just be careful with this advice: you can try to give her the 'cold shoulder' bit. If she can't tell you anything, just show her how it feels to be ignored. She'll get the message(:
Hope this helps, and good luck!
Your new friend, Hollywood(:
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