Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


I HATE GUYS WHO SEND MIXED FEELINGS AHHHH


Question Posted Monday November 9 2009, 11:13 pm

I have been friends with this guy since 9th grade and we are currently seniors. So we have an interesting relationship- we freely and often say we love each other and stuff. Ok so yesterday my friend randomly sends me a text saying "I love you" mind you, I have not spoken to him since last Thursday. So then he texts he saying that "Life is short and i had to tell you while it was on my mind" then he says "Why hide how you feel, knowing can make a difference because tomorrow is not guaranteed". So basically Im throw off by this and then i ask him today about it but he brushes it off as something totally different than the inherent meaning of the texts. I have sorta always liked him but I did not want to mess with our friendship. My friends who have known him since middle school says that he obviously likes me but Im not the one to say anything. What should I do?

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


ily24 answered Saturday November 14 2009, 11:52 am:
Go for it!
If you don't take chances in life, you will never succeed.
You never know once you date him you can actually start to like him.
If it doesn't work between you guys, well at the end if you have a really good relationship as friends you won't feel akward and everything would be back to normal.Good Luck!oxoxo

[ ily24's advice column | Ask ily24 A Question
]




sunshine1232 answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 7:59 am:
Well i'd try and talk to him take things slow seeing as you don't want to rush anything maybe ask him again about the text messages non chanlantly and see what he says if he says the same thing then i'd just drop it and move on but if it's something different then i'd try and get some information out of him it's worth a shot there's no harm in trying it's a advantage seeing as he does like you if he didn't then that'd be a different story i wouldn't leave this alone seeing as you might regret not doing something about it

-Kristina

[ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: im not sure what he is thinking
Next Question >>> tell my mom I lost virginity

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker