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reply.. She wont let me tell an adult. And I'm not going to abuse her trust. Like how can I help her solve it herself?
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In this instance you have no choice but to go to an adult. Who else is there you can turn to for help? Her father is not going to listen to you if you went to him, which you should not. You have to find a trusted adult and let the adult authorities look into this and find out just what is going on.
By keeping her trust you are not helping her. If your intention is to help her then you must go to a trust adult for help. It is just possible that she has come to you and confided in you because she realizes that you are smart enough to do what she herself is not able to do. Asking you to keep her trust may be just her way of allowing herself to tell you what she had to tell you.
I think at the very least you should discuss this with your parents and let them help you with decide how best to help your friend. If your friend is not in life threatening imminent danger your parents will be the ones who will best help keep the trust your friend has placed in you. ]
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