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kissing help
16/f
So my friend introduced me to this really cute guy. I think I like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me. And I know from her that he has hooked up a few times already, so he's pretty experienced. The problem is I have never kissed anyone before and have no idea how. I don't want to seem stupid. Help ?
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I'm not sure why people worry about their first kiss.. as you're doing it, you'll be thinking "ohhhhhhh, I was scared for nothing!"
You really do just go with the flow. Since he's already kissed before, you can just follow his lead.
At first, just take it slow, with small kisses (pecks) then if it feels right (you will know if both of you want to make it more passionate), make them deeper, then for example, take his top lip with yours and suck on it for a little.
If you want to bring tongue into it, don't just shove it in. Put it in there slowly and if he responds to it, he will either suck on it or move his with yours. Same goes if he puts his tongue in your mouth first.
When your tongue's in there, explore a little, run it along his teeth, slide it against his tongue etc.. play around :)
There really is nothing to worry about and as long as your tongue isn't like a washing machine and you're not spitting everywhere (for some strange reason!) it will go fine.
The more you kiss, the more experience you will get - also, people like it in different ways, so the fun part is to experiment with your boy and find out what works for you BOTH :)
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