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hey. thanks for the advice. i need to ask you something else too.
me and him havent been getting along the past week. and we have barely talked. and we normally always talk whenever he gets the chance and he alwyas used to call me at night before we go to sleep and he doesnt do that either.
we talked on friday and got in a huge fight and he told me he had to go to bed cause he had work at 7 in the morning but i should text him when i wake up. so i did. and i said i love you and he said it too.
so that morning when i woke up i texted him. he never called or texted me then whole day. so i texted him this morning and i still havent gotten anything back.
idk why he is ignorning me and idk what to do.
i dont wannaa keep calling him and texting him cuase i dont want to be annoying but im like miserable here.
ive never gone a day without talking to him. and he never ignores me like this.
what should i do?!
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It looks like you’ve become really dependant on him, you freak if he doesn’t talk to you for more than one day – and trust me I was like this. At the start it was ok, when I couldnt see him – and he had time for me – we spoke and had lovley convos, when I went up to see him it was nice- but it got to point where it wasnt the same, and I didnt feel the affection, he told me he feels. It was almost like he was saying things to keep me sweet, to keep things ok. But it got to a point where he got busy, and we would argue because I wasn’t happy I wasn’t getting the same amount of attention as usual – I was dependant on him. NO GIRL SHOULD BE LIKE THIS. That isnt a relationship – that is infactation – I got to a point where I would feel so down if he didnt call, didnt come online – near to tears, and I would get parnoid – And i swore I would NEVER be like that.
You need to decide if your relationship is worth the hassle and the misery. It’s going downhill between you two, and he’s getting busy. It will stay like that. Being so far away, you can forget the reasons why you even liked the person, or why you are even with them when they require so much from you! Take your head from out of the sky, and realise you don’t NEED him to be happy, you were yourself before him, you’re not now you are with him.
It’s not going to get easier and I wont lie. But I will say this TALK TO HIM. Communicate how you feel, ask him about why he hasnt replied, and tell him why you are upset. I never explained why I was upset. You have the two options – to save the relationship and just ACCEPT that he has his own life of his own – your only a very small part of that. OR to end it.Save yourself the misery, and wait and see that there might be a closer person, more suitable for you. I realised there was a REASON why tom lived far away – it WASN’T meant to be, but I did get experience from it. I broke it off, and couple months later, I’ve found someone else, closer to home, who doesn’t make me miserable. Why put yourself through the stress?
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