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never had an orgasm! also is my boyfriends penis too big??


Question Posted Friday October 30 2009, 11:46 pm

i am 16 and heres the thing, a guy has never given me an orgasm, i had sex with my ex more than a hundred times and i hardly felt anything was he doing it right??
also my current boyfriend has fingered me and again i cant feel anything, am i normal??

and also my current boyfriend and me went to have sex but his penis wouldnt go in or anything, he had a hard on but still it wouldnt go in, hes not really got a long penis more of a thick one. is there a possibility he could be too big for me?? and if he is how can we make it fit??

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solidadvice4teens answered Saturday October 31 2009, 6:33 pm:
The vagina can stretch enough to handle the birth of a 9 pound baby therefore, it can handle a penis of any size or girth. You have to be lubricated or attempting intercourse is futile and or will hurt you. The more lubricated the easier to enable penetration.

Most women don't climax from sex alone and need a combination of things. Don't worry if it's not happening all the time or if at all because most women only achieve orgasm through self-stimulation or a combination of the two. You're anatomically fine and physically. Is he doing it right?

Well, if you're not feeling anything try changing positions as it controls the depth and type of stimulation and intensity.

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TopCalamity answered Saturday October 31 2009, 5:52 pm:
First thin i have to say...RELAX! The scare it's too big will make your muscles contract and you won't be wet enough...so it might hurt and you won't feel anything. Try getting yourself off when you are alone, find ways to relax, quit putting pressure on yourself. And foreplay is a must! A woman needs to be prepared....men, boys in your case don't need much prep in case you haven't noticed!you can't rush into it, and sexuality is something you learn with time and experience...if a baby can come out of there , your boyfriend'S penis can get in!
Find what you like and share it with him. Maybe ask him to masturbate before he comes to see you, so he might not rush it so much...and respectc yourself as well as he should respect you and take his time...you are not an inflatable doll. Also try lubricant.

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