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hiii
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 5 months now. hes 16/m and i'm 17/f.
the only thing we have done is made out. and i dont think im even that good, at all. we haven't done it alot, but yeah. anyways, his ex girlfriend gave him a hj, and i dont feel like i NEED to give him one, but I kind of want to. but heres the thing..
1. i would feel guilty because my parents didnt bring me up that way, and i am not going to have sex until im marries or at least engaged or if i know im going to marry the person.
2. i would give him a hj if i knew how. like, the unknown scares me, even making out with him was like the scariest thing, but now its just fun.
3. my mom is always saying, "oh dont do anything like that, he'll take advantage of you." but i know he wont. hes not like that at all. hes always so patient. always.
4. ive never seen like.. a penis before hahaha. so uhm i wouldnt even know what to do. i guess the unkown aspects of it scare me.
5. i wouldnt even know how to start it or go about it, i dont even know if i turn him on. i cant tell. ahahaa. how can i tell?
6. i want like making out to get a little more heated or "hot and heavy" if you know what I mean. He's felt up my butt and stuff, but nothing else. and i dont think im ready for the whole him fingering me thing, at all.
7. i know you will say talk to him and all of that, but talking to guys about the stuff gets like ideas in their heads, you know? so i dont think i want to bring it up..
please help hahaa, i dont know what to do. I need some guidance, tips, personal experiences, answers.. anything and everything :] THANK YOU SO MUCH.
by the way, he only made out with her [his ex] and felt her up. and his views on sex are that he wont do it until like senior year of college when he knows hes in love with the girl and fully committed. just thought you guys should know..
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I think you should only do it if you are really ready! I made the mistake of starting early(13). I am now 16. If you want to know how to give a hj just look it up or i know it sounds weird but watch porn. Its not that big of a deal
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