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Question Posted Saturday October 24 2009, 5:51 pm

I recently discovered, at the doctors office oddly enough, that a finger in the butt excites me. A lot. Does this mean I have repressed homosexual feelings or does it just mean I like wierd stuff?

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alisonmarie answered Wednesday October 28 2009, 4:57 pm:
On the scale of sexual weirdness, a finger in the butt doesn't score that high. Many, many guys enjoy the feeling of things in their butt: you are not alone.

Congrats on finding something else that rocks your boat. As to your sexuality, enjoying the sensation of things in your butt doesn't make you gay - some gay guys don't even enjoy this! Your sexuality is part of who you are, and if you are questioning, it's a healthy thing.

I wish you the best.

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hitler_the_goat answered Wednesday October 28 2009, 1:11 pm:
I agree, as long as you don't start looking at gay porn, you're straight. I'm not one for ass-play, but there's plenty of dudes that are into it that aren't into the penis. just remember to use an enema before you have your girlfriend play doctor with you.
-Gunner

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Peeps answered Wednesday October 28 2009, 4:48 am:
No.

Many straight men enjoy inserting fingers or sex toys into their rectum during sexual acts. Doing this creates pressure on the prostate, which is easily accessible in the anus of a man. There are straight men who do this to achieve more fulfilling orgasms. Many times the man's female partner will help to do this sort of sexual touching or inserting of the sexual objects.

So, technically liking this is not so strange and does not make you homosexual. Liking a specific sexual act doesn't typically change your sexuality unless it deals with a specific gendered person or persons. If you have sexual desires to only be with people of the same gender then you may not be considered a straight man.

As they say, different strokes for different folks. Some people enjoy this sort of activity while others feel no pleasure in that or feel uncomfortable. It's the same with any sort of sexual act, fantasy, or desire.

In other words: This doesn't make you gay and it isn't as weird as you may think. You aren't alone and I'm sure you'll find a nice lady later in life that will be willing to help you fulfill these desires.

P.S. Please be aware that inserting objects, including your own fingers, into your rectum is not healthy for your body and you can experience severe damage in some cases. It really isn't recommended for health purposes.

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