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My name is tonia and i am 16 and a female .I dated this guy 4 like 3 weeks and we broke up because he heard from some girl that i cheated on him,and i was a bitch to him well i was but he was one to me too. i do really like him and all but like i don't know what to do he talked shit bout me for awhile bbut then that same day he texted me and saying sorry he misses me and all kinds of other shit but what do i do. plz email me at Tonia_skittles@yahoo.com
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Hi Tonia,
If you really like this guy, you need to have a serious conversation with him to make things work. Ask him to be open minded and let you get everything out before he speaks.
Explain to him that whatever girl told him things about you was lying (and if anything she said had truth to it, fess up) and tell him your emotions. Tell him that your hurt he believed her before talking to you, that he trusted her over you, and that you miss him. Tell him what you want to make the relationship work but you are going to need him to trust you and talk to you if he ever hears something. Also tell him you won't take him talking about you behind your back. If he can agree then maybe it's worth trying to make the relationship work. Ask him how he feels and if he felt you could do something differently, because if your asking him to make changes then it is only fair you compromise if needed as well.
If he isn't as open to trying as you are, then maybe you are better off as friends. If he seems like someone who brings in drama, it probably isn't worth it. You haven't dated him a long time, so it may be better to get out of it before you get in to deep. Listen to your head on this one.
Good luck,
-Abby
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