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Period? Just Bleeding after sex? What's going on...
I'm getting worried. my boyfriend and I are long distance. We only have intercourse every 1 or 2 times a month. for the past 4-5 months we would have intercourse and a day later I would bleed for a bout a week. It's fairly heavy, like my period would be, but see the thing is my period would be like a week or two away. So does sex speed it up or what the hell? I have back pain, breast tenderness, cramps, HORRIBLE cramps I may add, all those of my normal period (yes including the cramps that sometimes make me want to carve out my ovaries... :b) Altough, I may add also, that the first two times we'd "tried" having sex, they were failures do to muh pain, he was my first. Well anyways, we didn't get it in at all, so it was more oral, no figering at all or anything, yet the next day I got some bleeding, I thought it was my period. I'm pretty convinced it it...since after this I don't get any bleeding till the next month. It's been bothering me, we use protection/ condoms. I don't know what is happening but it is worrying me, so please anyone know what could be going on? Don't tell me to go a doctor, I know that already and I will sooner or later, if that's all you can provide as advice save yourself the finger exhaust and don't type anything at all. ;O
A few things, The day before yesterday so, Monday we had intercourse, yesterday Tuesday the bleeding accured, it's fairly heavy and doesn't seem to be lightening up. Hmmm...
I have just one more question, oh and I'm sorry if this is too long, and has many questions spread about. >.<;
But where could I get the birthcontrol pill? Other than my doctor and online. I heard about um, a clinic but I forgot what it's called, they help teens with sex issues, questions and such. Any help at all, greatly appreciated.
F/16
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planned parenthood... or you can google pregnancy clinics near your zip code and as fot he bleeding you should probably get checked out by a gyn. i have chronic endometriosis and have the same symptons and am not allowed to have sex until it heals. currently i am in menopause trying to fight this off and it sucks my case is severe because i have had it for so long so you should go see a doctor because the sooner you get checked out the betetr.
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ive said this before here in california law allows for sex ed, consultation, informations, medical advice and birth control options that are not only free but extremeley private. I can clearly remember when i found out my younger sister (then 15) using condoms and birth control pills she got from a teen clinic all without parental consent and again all private thats the law here...so i dont know if your in california but like you said you know you should seek medical counsultation...any how theres a lot of things that can be goin on one is which i hope is not going on with you but it can be deadly again seek medical advice he could be tearing or irritating your vaginal walls or beleive it or not you might be allergic to him..SAY WHAT!!! yeahp there has been some cases where females would be allergic to 1. their lovers sperm.semen or 2. their body horomone/ chemistry. also check my colum for one of my previous advice in regards to a tampon story..do you wear tamopons? if you do then read the story. what can also be happening in whihch i think is whats going on is that you are still not fully sexually developed in other words your body is still adjusting itself and now since you are no longer a virgin has to readjust itslef to a penis involved. it can slo be that you are still healing from your first sexual penetration. the fact you mention that your breasts are tender and you get cramps does makes me wonder...and dont get me wrong but..you could be pregnant!. Now everyone thiks well i had sex and that was a couple of day ago or a week ago and now im on my period....but the thing is you know what a period feels like and you know how your vagina behaves during a period the question is Does it actually feels like a period? bleeding and then stop bleeding is considered spotting and that "spotting " can occur during pregancy..there are numerous cases that a woman"spots" feels cramps and what feels like the flu OR just the cramps and the "period " symptons and find out they are Pregnant! so you can take a urine exam which are not difficut to get and do ( walmart, longs cvc )2 for $14.99) take the test in the morning on a full bladder . pee into the test strip and wait for the results. I strongly recommend talking to a gynocologist or a professional medical practitioner that works woth teens or clinic.
I hope this helps andif it doesnt let me know
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I also wanted to mention that if he is performing oral on you or using his finger he want to make sure he keeps his nails very clean and well trimed and NO edges not only beacuse of the cuts and pain but also beacuse of introducing germs and unfriendly bacteria....now there is also medical studies that have shown that some males are able to stimulate periods due to that women do get stress and sex is a form of a stress reducer and brings relief so maybe he does that for you...he might be helping your period, remember menstruation occurs because of horomone activity and sex involves alot of horomones and alot of activity. research the laws in your city state in regards of their medical privacy laws and towrads teens. also Even though i do not advice in having sex at a early age (for medical/personal reasons if youre curious ask me an ill tell you) If you are concerend about the limits of birth control pills and how expesinve they are...then if you can get hold of some contraceptives then go for the Nuva ring it all all possible or the patch or the shot. If you are not comfortable and want to be more private then use contraceptive gels they are over the counter and generally can be found at a walgreen,longs drugs/CVC, and even Walmart most of the time it can be found in the feminine hygene isle or in the baby care section. Theres also the contraceptive film which in my opinion also a very good product. and theres the contraceptive pill that YOU DO NOT DRINK but instead insert/push into your vagina. But the best way to prevent any doubt and 100% pregancy proff way to have sex is to NOT HAVE SEX...any type...you and i both know that touchy touchy will lead to sexy sexy...I hope this helps..if it doesnt let me know.
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