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I am new at Relationships shorta
Last weekand. I was hook up with a guy name z. and my freind set me up with. he very nice. and we been seeing eachter over a week. he met my parent. i know that shorta soon. but I dont drive and well if he take me place, sure they like know who taken me. we went out this weekand to the mall and was my frist real date. he is 28 and I am 24. Last night i met his sister and I haven't met his parent yet. we are try keep it slow. he seem like me alot I know he is a talker and I know he like that with everyone. He very intereress learning sign lanuage becouse I am hard of hearing and I can hear with my hearing aids. he very nice and polite and he never been in real Relationships. and I haven't eaither. i only had one bf when i was younger. maybe young teen years. so it like new both of us. he told me that he hase 2 past girls he like. one was messing around and other one ithink took adavange of him. frist night we watch movie together i know we held hands and even this weekand at the mall. we share chines food. i know maybe were rushing just little. i think becouse were kinda excited meet eachter and hopley it work out. thing is i am not good at notice signs and i need some tips. i really like him but i am wanting to get to know him more. becouse i know when u get to know somone and there always a doubt in the future. i know that why people souldn't rush. I mean right now we are talking alot and that a good thing i know that. i like to talk to. I like somone option what i said and wonder what to do make it seem more you know. becouse were try becareful not to rush.and i want know what i sould not do sard him away lol. sould i let him be more charge what plans ideas and things like that? I am new at this and well i shorta had realationship with guy i grow up with he was my best friend and now things change he change his way and i know now it never work otu and i always like him like borther now.. anyway i like somone give me some Realtionships tips thanks..
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The first thing about any relationship is that it should be 50/50 it takes two to make a relationship work. If you are looking for long term, than you and your partner need to be fully committed and know that there will be bumps in every road you take in life. If you and your boyfriend have been dating a week and you think that you are taking it a little to fast than slow it down a little bit. A week into a relationship is almost like a trial period it is when you are still getting to know your partner. I do not think that you should let your boyfriend be more in charge at this time because it is still very early in the relationship and like I said it should always be 50/50. Also a little tip honesty, trust and communication are the two biggest things in a relationship. As far as the sex goes my advice is to try and wait as long as you can. Make sure your boyfriend is the right one, you fully love and trust him 100% and there is no pressure or doubts.
Some tips below..
Make sure there is no pressure into sex
He is trustworthy and honest
Reliable and opened to communication
Red Flag: Watch out for guys who talk about or have any contact with ex girlfriends they are the ones who are likely to cheat and become unfaithful in a relationship.
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