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PLEASE HELP!
I have a major PROBLEM!i can't get wet!I have a new bf and we make out everyday but Im NEVER horny!!!what is wrong with me??what should I do about it?
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I use to have that problem and this may sound weird but alot of my issues were from using Tampons. It was absorbing all of my internal wetness...and it was just making it so hard to get wet I would use all sorts of lotions and stuff... Or it could just be your body telling you that your not that into him and not to be in a hurry. If your body is as aroused as you think it is then you shouldn't have a problem...so you might not be that into him. Just think about it.
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Well this is just my opinion, but it is from experience. Young boys are not interested in pleasing their partner, as much as they are interested in pleasing themselves. And it is very easy for them to orgasm. Especially if they enter your vagina with their penis. For a young girl to get aroused and excited and then, yes, wet. It takes time and patience. Kissing, not just mouth kissing, long slow kissing. Kissing on the neck and shoulders. Also words. Telling you how beautiful you are, how lovely you look today, what a great body you have, and then tell you how he makes you feel. That kind of foreplay usually happens when couples are more mature, say 20 and older. Because, young boys need to learn that sex is NOT ALL ABOUT THEM. They need to learn to take their time and make sure that their partner is also aroused and ready. If you can, you should try to speak frankly with your boyfriend and tell him that you think he is going too fast and he needs to take time to "make love" to you. Using kind words and soft kisses, and loving caresses. If he is not willing to do this, or if you find it to embarassing to talk to him about it, then it is time to find a new boyfriend. One who thinks about you, not just himself.
Good luck to you dear.
- Michele
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Sex is not usually as easy as it is portrayed in various media outlets. The sad fact is MOST women don't just get all hot an bothered over make out sessions. While kissing is a great way to lead into more serious foreplay, it's not exactly going to get you begging for sex. You'll want to try progressing from just kissing, to touching. The longer you two "play" the more you will want sex therefore the wetter you will get. However, you should know a whole lot of women will still have trouble getting wet even with tons of foreplay. Lubrication is one option, there's a thousand kinds, scents, and tastes out there to experiment with from warming to cooling. Have fun trying them all. (Lubes are useful EVEN if your not ready to have intercourse as they can make touching/rubbing/fingering/handjobs all feel better for both of you.) Another, even better option, when you are ready to have sex, is to receive oral sex from your guy. You'll get wet, you'll get horny, and you will want sex. (Again, this option too will get you where you want to go (aka orgasm) with or without having actual intercourse. Again I will say THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! It's just that good sex is a tad more work than the movies make it out to be. Have fun experimenting!
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