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Should i date him?
hi! 14female
ok, well my just recent bf broke up with me, because people were making fun of him for dating me? Ugh, so stupid,i can't believe he's that shallow. Well, this other boy that i dated last summer he was real sweet, caring and i had a great time dating him, than we broke up because he didn't think he was ready to date me yet. Well, when i was still dating my ex, he told me that he still loves me and that i was the best thing that ever happened to him, and not to forget how much he loves me. you see, I think he's the right guy. He is but, he will be moving far away and i won't be able to see him. My friend told me long distance relationships can work, you have to make them work, but i don't know how i will because i haven't been in one before. Can someone tell me if i should choose him, and if i do how can i stay with him? thanks
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well if sex isn't an issue go for it but if you need companionship you better do the right thing and break it off and seek someone closer to home.that's if you need kisses & cuddles over phone talk & promises.
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Long distance relationships can work, but the tradeoff is loneliness, worry about what the other person is doing,and worry that they are going to forget about you. You might also get a little jealous of your friends who get to go on dates and go to dances, which you can't do while you're being faithful to someone else.
Very few people meet the love of their life at 14 and you really shouldn't limit yourself. No reason not to keep this guy as the dear friend that he seems to be. But I think you should keep your options open.
All my love,
Aunt Kerry
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