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cant get over her !
female/high school student
basicallly, theres this girl that i just cant stop thinkin about... she goes out with my 'friend', who actually started talkin to her AFTER i told that 'friend' that i liked her. lets call the girl i like 'A'.
A is just the best. shes so cute, sexy, funny, adorable...you get it. i cant help myself but to flirt with her. she was supposed to come over my house friday to hang out but her rides car broke down.
she wanted me FIRST before my 'friend' went after her. see, im not the person who will jump on top of you if i like you, i just like to get to know people. wellll i guess i waited too long. but the fact that she wanted me first and that i wanted her keeps us flirtin... its kind of bad but i reaallly cant/dont wanna stop.
she flirts with me a lot tho. always calls me bae/baby and we usually talk all the time. ive tried not to talk to her so ican get over her , but it just makes me wanna talk to her more. when i see her at school i get butterflies, she turns me on, we get along really well.
ughhhh , i dont know what to do with myself ! someone help me.
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Just how do you envision your future with her???? 1) A short flirty school fling
2) long term deep & meaningful relationship? (meaning- monogamy marriage with children for a life time)
3) Bachelor with many girlfreinds.
Your cutting in on another guys girl, right now. flirting with her. Have fun YES BUT don't flirt NO
Yes you lost for now things change build a bridge and get over it. Teens go through true love every 3 mths or so don't they, till something better comes along. how do you know if she didn't always want guy No.2 maybe she was comfortable with you to get to know your friend better the one whom was really in her sights. Maybe she used you to get to him & she flirts back fully comfortable you won't take advantage of her. Find youself your own girl and go out together as a group of 2 couples. mmmm? build a bridge and get over it.
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I feel for ya, honey. And when life is making you feel bad, you need to find ways to feel good. I can't give you advice on how to get this girl back because no one has the right to try and change another person. She feels what she feels, and if she prefers this other person for now, I think you need to find a way to give her that space.
What I would like to see you do is to take care of yourself, get a hobby, or do some volunteer work, anything you can do to take the focus off of your own pain. In time, I hope you realize that you have a lot to offer someone, and that somewhere out there is just the one who deserves it.
All my love,
Aunt Kerry
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