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should i let him?
this guy im friends with has been wanting to fool around with me for a while and i have secretly wanted to too. i dont c him too often and i know none of my friends would approve because they all thing he's an ass hole. i havn't had much experience but part of me is REALLY tempted to do it. i don't know what to do, HELP?!?!
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This isn't really anyone's choice to tell you yes or no. It's 100% your choice only. That goes for anyone on here and your friends.
If you feel like you want to 'fool around' with this guy then perhaps you should. If your not looking for any sort of relationship but you wish to have some fun (providing you are old enough to accept any consequences) then you should go for it.
You shouldn't let anyone tell you who you can date or 'fool around' with. It's not fair to you. You are your own person!!
You'll need to let this guy know your boundries as only you know what they are. Just rememeber to play it safe and ALWAYS have respect for yourself.
Good luck, have fun, play safe!!
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You need to ask yourself what you want from this relationship. Do you love him? Does he love you? Are you hoping that a sexual relationship will lead to marriage down the road? *Hint: It very very rarely does.
Before you risk contracting a permanent venerial disease like herpes or aids, and before you get pregnant out of wedlock, you need to think about this some more.
It's natural for you to want to have sex, as that is human nature. But wanting it, or even being in love with the guy doesn't make it the right thing for you at this time. Also, if the majority of your friends dislike him, you might want to consider that as well. I'm not suggesting you let your friends pick your boyfriend. Are they trying to look out for you? Is it possible they see things in him that you don't see?
Give yourself some more time and take those blinders off before you do something you might really regret later.
All my love,
Aunt Kerry
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