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pleasure?


Question Posted Saturday September 26 2009, 2:07 am

This is pretty emmbarassing but im not afraid to speak of it. ive had sex with like 2 poeple only and a total of 15 times. ive done everything ya know ect. ect. but for the first few minutes of intercoarse its pretty good, then nothing. so thru all that time its not pleasurable at all. like theres no pain, just... dull-ness? like i feel nothing afterward then idk when to stop hah omgsh.
i hope that wasnt confusing.
is ther something wrong?
and weve tried ways to kick it up, but nope..

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thelaura answered Saturday September 26 2009, 4:52 pm:
You just haven't found what works for you. Not everyone can climax from intercourse alone, so why don't you try different positions - they feel different.. and if still no luck, try stimulating the clitoris at the same time.
It just takes a bit of practice. Maybe you should spend more time on foreplay too. :)

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Michele answered Saturday September 26 2009, 3:18 pm:
Sounds to me like you are NOT having orgasms. And I am not surprised. You and your boyfriend do not understand how to pleasure a woman's body. SO I guess you have not tried everything yet. Go on line and google vagina and photos. You'll see some medical drawings of a woman's vagina. Note where the clitoris is. That is what has to be stimulated. When that spot is simulated the correct way. (with patience, with gentleness and with lots of lubrication) you should be able to achieve an orgasm. Maybe you should try it on yourself first.
Some women, if they have a small clitoris, can NEVER achieve orgasm through intercourse, But that does not mean that they cannot achieve orgasm. There are other ways. Oral sex is not just for guys.
- Hope this helps

Michele

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Cody930 answered Saturday September 26 2009, 3:02 pm:
what is everything?

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