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So i have a problem. theres this guy who used to like me a few years ago, and i rejected him many times. Now a few years later, we don't talk at all anymore, infact things are pretty awkward between us and we just ignore eachoter. But randomly i decided i like him now, actually for a while, but we don't talk at all and things are still awkward. and the very least i want us to be friends. how do i make that happen??
plzzz helppp!
just to give you an idea : iam slightly shy and awkward, he is not but i have resently learned he is scared to make the first move bcz hes scared of rejection....
okayy plzzz help mee!
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Well.. its kind of hard for me to relate to this because I am one to go out and about and am not shy at all... I have girls chasing me all over...
But otherwise, I think the best thing (from experience cuz ima guy) That you should confront him, don't be shy, try to work out a conversation or speech or whatever beforehand and tell him exactly what you feel and what you want. from your description, he seems like he is a nice guy, so if you are able to talk nicely and get your point across, there is no question that he won't reject u. Gud Luk!!!!
Yes i spelled certain words wrong on purpose...
-Give it a go!!!!
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aww..reading this makes me a little sad cuz i have a situation like this....but actually really different. anyways, i think what you should do is that maybe you guys have a myspace or facebook or email? something? so you should write him something like "hey i havent spoken to you in awhile, look i want to actually talk to you face to face about something"..(its easier writing this than face to face)..so hopefully you guys meet up face to face and tell him that your sorry for the rejetions that you gave him and you do want to go out with him. and tell him that you hope that your not too late. and that your really serious abou this..(but you have to really be serious about this because you dont want to end up putting his hopes up)..or maybe you should tell him that you want you guys to be friends again and tell him how you feel and that you miss him, because i bet you do. and tell him that maybe while you guys are rebuilding your friendship you can take the next level :)..i hope i helped a bit..i sometimes onfuse myself when i give out advice..i hope i didnt confuse you :) good luck, tell me how it goes okay?
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