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okay. so im 17 female and hes a 17 male. weve been together for almost 9 months. and were starting to get into the physical part of our relationship. meaning were getting more touchy and grabby with one another. we havent had sex yet though we both want to. and we both want kids. well he always seems to hurt me. like stepping on my toes and pinching me and biting me and all that stuff. i asked him why he is always hurting me and he said its cause he loves me. i told him my number 1 rule with my body is he can touch and rub and do whatever he wants to it. but not to hurt it. well he still will sometimes. and i get mad. well im the kind of person im more into like the rubbing and the sucking not really the biting cause he does it hella hard. well my question is what would you guys do if you were more the softer one meaning you like rough but soft like sucking and rubbing and all that. and he was all rough and biting and pinching. how would you guys do things or hangout together without one of yall getting mad everytime they hurt you or there not being rouch?! please help me. thankyou in advance
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Hey,
If someone loves you, the MAIN thing they WILL NOT do, is hurt you. If a person TRULY loves you, they will respect you, comfort you, hold you, cry with you, be honest, and be there for you.
If he does not respect your wishes and continues with hurting behaviour, you have got to tell him to lay off! EvErY couple needs RESPECT. You have to be heard and know that he will respect you, before you can even move to the next level. Otherwise, it will not be worth it.
Communication is key as well. If you want to get along and hang out without fighting, talk about what needs to be changed in the relationship, make sure (correct) changes are made, and that they are enforced. Once you are both on the same level, you will find that you get along better, understand eachother, are happier, and will have more fun in the bedroom ;)
And I am sure you may know, but 17 is a young age to get pregnant. You have a whole life ahead of you and you do not need a child to pull you back, not just yet. So be aware.
Communicate and everything will work out in your relationship <3
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