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I like a boy in school but it is impossible for me to see him!
hi Im destiny. uyou answered my question about cutting. but i need you advice on somethimg partly related. There is this boy in my high schol that i should be going to. I met him last year and he liked me alot.He wouldnt leave me alone.not that i minded that. i liked him back. this was a 3weeks before my mom started homeschooloing me. Then another boy who liked me in the beggining of the year who now hates me screamed that the boy i liked liked me back,and he didnt speak to me after that. i wanted to explain that i liked him but i never got the chance to. i saw him at afriends bday party and he acted like he liked me still but now i dont know how to contact him. my freind is trying to get his number for me but he wont give it. My freinds keep telling me to get over him and i am trying but it is not easy. by the way, doyou beleive in love at first sight? cause it feels like i likd him from the start but i was trying to deny myself because my freinds told me he was sort of a perv and weird. but i didnt care and now it is stabbing me in the back.(or heart to be exact) i should have listened to them. it hurts to be away from him. Thanks for your concern. Destiny
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Hi Destiny,
I don't believe in love at first sight. I don't think there is such a thing. It's more like lust at first sight. To love someone is to know them inside and out, enjoy their personality to the fullest, and accept all their flaws. If you're only looking at them without knowing them first, how could one possibly love them? It's just lust at first sight, not love.
If your friends are telling you that this boy is perverted and weird, chances are he might be. When you really like someone, sometimes it's hard to see their flaws or the negative things about them. Love can be blind, so the things you don't see that are wrong with a person, your friends or other people will see it.
I don't think there's anything wrong with being weird. I'm weird, you're probably weird, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's our quirks that make us! I think you should get into contact with him. Does he have a MySpace, a FaceBook? If he has either of those, contact him on one. Tell him you're sorry for things that have happened in the past, and that you'd like to get to know him more and become his friend - that you'd like to repair the relationship. I think if you're being sincere about it, he'll accept your apology & will give you a second chance. Don't send your friends to do something like this for you. He needs to hear this from you. Sending other people will only delay him from wanting to get into contact with you.
If you do happen to get to know him, and he is perverted (and you don't find that attractive), then you don't have to continue with the relationship. Maybe seeing his flaws (the ones you can't accept) can help you to get over him quicker. Don't be so quick to dismiss him though. Give him a chance before you make your judgement based on what your friends think. They may be right, but sometimes it's nice to learn things for yourself. In order to learn a lesson, sometimes it needs to be learned the hard way.
Thanks for inboxing me, Destiny. Let me know if you need help with anything else. :) I really appreciate it. Good luck - let me know how things go!
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