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Question Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 5:49 pm

I need good advice. I wanna die so bad i think about it evryday of mi life its like living with the enemy in my house. I'm only a 13 year old girl in school is the only time i can really express myself when i'm happy ang in a good mood I feel that life is great but only for 8 hours evryday. When i =I get home it's always another fight with my mom i HAte her so bad she is always calling me names like dumass,stupid,i hate you why me ,why did i keep you, i hate that kid,moran,idiot, worthless trash. After a while she says wwwwwhy u mad? what i id like if she dosn't know what she did and im crying in my bed searching for easy ways to put an end to this. I just hate when she says i work alot for you etc i buy u evrythnig you want.. BIG WOOP she dosen't give me what i really want LOVE a mother that i can trust talk to communicate with. The only one who gets me is my dad and best freind in the world we known each other for 10 years, she is the reason my i havn't tried jumping off my balconing. I just hope that one day i die in my dreams. what do you think i should do with my stupid mean retarded mother or lik i say that women

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karenR answered Thursday September 17 2009, 11:28 am:
Tell her how you feel. Really, she needs a wake up call. Just tell her you live everyday of your life
wanting to kill yourself because she treats you like shit. Then tell her what shes doing. Don't back down.

Will it be a big old fight? Sure will. But it needs to happen. Remember, no matter what she may say, she will hear you. It might take some time but with any luck it will sink in when she takes time to think about what you said. Then, I hope things will get better for you.

Killing yourself is never the answer. If she doesn't stop then steer clear of her the best you can. Let her yell and call you names and just ignore her. Don't answer back or fight with her. Let her think she has won. You will know better.
Just don't let her feelings of worthlessness get
transferred to you. You will turn 18 and move out on your own one day. She will be left a lonely bitter woman while you enjoy your life.

Hang in there and stop by anytime to talk. :)

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