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girl problems
im 15/male
ok this might be a little long, but help me plz.
im a junior in high school, there is a girl who is a freshman. i met her about 2 months ago. We planned on hooking up only the second day i saw her! and we made out. and we never wanted to date or be bf and gf or anything.
But after a week or so, she took a vacation and we texted like for 24hours each day and night. we were almost like in love with each other. Or maybe only i was. I always talked to her about a relationship, but she always said that she wanted things to "flow naturally" and i was fine with that.
we both swore that we would never forget each other, and than i took a vacation to asia for two weeks. when i got back, she wasnt interested in me anymore. but she still talked to me.
now im texting her and talking to her about us, and she doesnt seem interested anymore. i cant tell if shes lying and just wanted to use me as a hook up. But for SOME REASON, i always end up feeling this way for this girl. i think i love her and i can swear to god...i can see myself marrying this girl forever. I dont want her to walk out of my life. And also, i know for sure that deep down in her, she feels the same way. But she is young and vulnerable.
please help me, i love this girl and i dont want her to leave my life. Help.
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Hey there,
firstly let me say that I think nearly everyone on here can relate to this. weve all had to or will have to go through something like this at some stage in life it sucks big time but it happens.
I know this might not be what you want to hear but the fact is peoples feelings change and they or us cant help that. you don't know for sure if she still likes you so you have to accept her word and respect it. your still so young you may feel like shes the only one for you right now but trust me those feelings will ease up and there will be other girls I promise,you will get over her I know you don't want to but to be honest right now I think thats what you need to be.
you say you dont want her to walk out of your life, so dont let her dont give her a reason too by pushing her to have feelings for you its gonna drive her away dont be too full on just do your best to be there for her as just a friend. its better then nothing right?
maybe ask her straight out to tell you honestly if she has not one feeling for you in that way if she says no then youl have to move on. its the hardest thing ever to do im not gonna lie but you can do it the trick is time and to distract yourself whenever you think of her as being more then a friend keep busy and in time youl start to see her as just a friend.
Im sorry I couldnt be of more help but thats all you can do really you cant make someone like you unfortunately.
best of luck and I hope things work out
much <3
Jess 16/f
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