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Hello I asked you a question about 3 months and i cant thank you enough for making me relise for what took me 1 and half to notice and making me move thank you so much!!!
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Ok this might be long but last year i liked this guy and he had gf but i couldnt help myself.So when he found i liked him he started flirting with me and i was head over heels for him and when his gf found outi liked him she freaked out and started talking behind my back and all her friends hated me too but in front of my friends she was all nice and polite.And then like 2 weeks after he had to leave to go to another school he said i was acting like his girlfriend and i wouldnt leave him alone.So now 11 months later im here and i cant let him go .next year i have to go to the same school he went to and then i have to see him everyday.ive tried everything to let him go but i cant. plz help me
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First of all, accept the fact his girlfriend hates you, and talks about you behind her back. She's a bitch, she's jealous and sees you as a threat. Girls are always going to be like that to eachother - you can't blame her, especiallly when you told him you liked him - causing him to go behind her back and flirt with you
Sometimes when you love someone, or when your infatuated with someone - you do message them a little bit more, think about them more - go on their facebook more just to check if he has been online at alll (which then gets you parnoid if he has and he hasn't messaged you, but he's messaged other people) - maybe that's why he felt you were acting like his girlfriend.
I personally think he has to take the blame for your heartbreak. He flirted with you, made you think he liked you back - but sometimes it just a game to guys. They like it when the attentions on them. You need to STOP giving it to him.
If he's going out with a girl who bitchy - it just shows you he has no real class or taste, & if he doesn't like you - then he was never good enough for you, and he doesn't have good taste at all. You need to get over this stage of heartbreak and realise you're too good for him/ Why waste your attention on someone who DOES NOT give a shit about you. The reason I'm being so harsh here is to show, what type of a guy he is. And the type of guy he is - is someone you don't NEED.
If you still like him, you still like him, but just no he's hurt you - you dont need people like that in your life. Shut him out - delete him of aim,msn,myspace,facebook etc, delete his number. Situate yourself around your friends. Ok, so you have to go to the same school - its the perfect oppourtnity to show him what he is has missed out on girl, he has missed out on YOU. Don't give him attention, ignore him. You're nothing to him, so he should be NOTHING to you.
A cure I've found, to release the sense of sadness,rejection and angerness against a boy is music, music has helped me a lot - as I am in a similar situation. Sometimes you just can't find the right words to express how you feel. I understand how you feel- torn, parnoid, angry, sad, and sort of happy - because that's how he makes you feel..alll these songs have the perfect lyrics :)
Forever & Always - Taylor Swift
Clown - Mariah Carey
Breakdown-Mariah Carey
Now That We're Done - Metro Station
Learning to fall - Boys Like Girls
The Kill - 30 Seconds To Mars
Risque - Cute Is What We Aim For(LOVE this song)
Alive - Black Eyed Peas(*..tune!)
Meet Me Halfway - Black Eyed Peas
You Could Be Happy- Snow Patrol(Lovley Song)
Naive - The Kooks
Breakdown - Forever The Sickest Kids
Breakeven - The Script
The Man Who Can't Be Moved - The Script
Always attract - You Me at six
Try to cut out as much contact with him as possible and just think about how he's hurt you and he's the reason why you feel like this - you don't deserve to feel like this. Situate yourself around your friends, write poetry, read, and just learn you can be independant. There's going to be someone out there for you, someone who will respect you a whole lot more and never hurt you - so focus on that. You're too good for him. There willl be one day when he's going to come running after, but it will be too late. You WILL have moved on, and realised, he was NEVER worth your tears x
I REALLY hoped I helped :D xxxxx
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