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Do you think friendship trust can be rebuilt? Any examples.
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I have MAJOR trust issues. Some of my friends have broken my trust, and in my eyes, if theres no trust, theres no friendship. You can't have one without the other.
With that said, yes, I do think that friendship trust can be rebuilt. I've already done that multiple times haha, so I am a strong believer.
For example:
Last year, my friend went behind my back to my other friend and told her who I liked, which was one of my biggest secrets. The friend who told my other friend this secret was the ONLY person who knew and I told her not to tell anyone under ANY circumstances. But she did. So it ruined the trust in our friendship. But after a while, she kept apologizing and saying she knew she was wrong. However, sorrys don't always work. In this case, it didn't.
But, I tried to forgive her, it took some time and everything. but I never, ever forget. We started out just talking again, about nothing. Then I tested her by telling her a "secret" [which wasnt a secret at all haha] just to see if she would tell anyone again ... she didn't. and our trust went from there.
People make mistakes. No one is perfect and everyone deserves a second chance. it clearly depends on how and WHY the trust was ruined in a firendship. but overall, I think it can be fixed and rebuilt. it just takes time, effort and well, trust.
good luck ! hope I helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! :] xxo.
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