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band.. drum major
I like the drum major of the band, like I said. Everyday, I'm getting closer to the conclusion that he likes me. Everytime the band is being bad, he will yell at the band as a whole but when he calls set and the band is ready and I'm not he won't tell me "get ready" or "come on, listen better" when someone else in the band isnt in their spot or in playing position like he says, he'll yell at them and tell them they need to hustle more. It seems to me like he yells at everyone else in the band but me and his buddies. Another thing, alot of people in the band think he's gay, which he isnt. He kinda portrays it sometimes but only his close friends, the nice band geeks and me believe he isn't. I like him alot and one more thing that might help is he talks to everyone else in the band like he is best friends with them, yet he doesn't talk to me. ps: dont reply "he likes you, talk to him." because I don't talk to the guys, they make the first move for me, I have worked to hard on a guy before to only be let down so I let them come to me. Thanks! <>< {(15/f)}
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Its a really complicated situation. I completely understand your ideals on men and it is their job to make the first move. I don't think he is gay either, if he were he would be hanging around women more. He may likes authority over the men and in a mans mind like that, he wouldn't yell at you because technically in his mind he already has control over women. He certainly wouldn't do it to his friends either. He also may be trying to impress you by showing how authoritative he can be.
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