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But what is marriage? Technically it's nothing but a piece of paper that can be thrown away just as easily by signing another.
That's what you said.....
and i just wanted to comment on it Marriage is a commitment to the love you have for your husband or wife It's the person you are ganna spend your hole life with adn when iit comes down to the day you get married your on you hunny moon You have sex with that person for the first time and its a wonderful feeling knowing its with the person your ganna be with for ever you get to do things that you didnt do while you were dating because it's a new comitment and if you think about it
lets say a person has a bf they have sex there not married so it comes down to that night that is sopose to be so spechal but to them its just a nother night haveing sex it's nothing new you havvent done befor i just thought it was important to tell you srry its kinda long
and also about the bible it is man writen so just trust god and ask him about sex befor marrage.
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I appreciate you giving me your opinion, but it's just not the same as mine. Obviously you believe in waiting until marriage, and I think that is fantastic. Good for you if that's what you believe in. But like Tina said while answering your question, if we respect you for waiting, you should respect us if we don't.
I believe in marriage one-hundred percent. I can't wait to get married and to tell you the truth, most likely I will be engaged and then married all in the next three to five years. And just so YOU know, I think our wedding night will be very special. Apparently you are a virgin, and if that's what you believe in then that's wonderful. But obviously you don't know what sex is like. It's an adventure every time if you love the person and you are ready. It's a beautiful experience that never gets old, and there is always new things to be discovered. You said sex wouldn't be special on your honeymoon if you had already done it before. Does that mean if you wait until marriage, that after the honeymoon sex will never be special again? I don't think that at all.
I stand by what I said about what marriage is. I said "technically" as in that is the technical meaning. People get married and divorced all the time. I know of a woman who has been married six times! Obviously it's not a very special committment to her. It is to me though. Just because the technical meaning of marriage is to have a license doesn't mean I don't think it's much more than that. I agree with you in that it is a union that should be cherished. I never said it wasn't.
I have been having sex for three and a half years, and I am only eighteen years old. Am I ashamed? No. Do I try to talk others into having sex just because my sexual experience is less than satisfactory as Peeps said? Definitely not. On the contrary, my sex life is very satisfying. And I certainly don't talk others into having sex. That's a personal decision that no one but that person can make. I would never try convincing someone about sex unless it was to tell them I didn't feel they were ready, because a lot of people aren't. I was. Do I feel I will regret my decision of having sex with my boyfriend? Never. Like I said, I don't believe in having multiple sex partners. I have sex with my boyfriend because I love him and I want to share that with him. I didn't want to wait until marriage, so I didn't. Even if we break up, I have loved him for so long and I will never regret sharing something that was so special to us at the time. It's something that we have shared together, and that will always be ours, so I know I will never regret it.
And to reply to your "since the bible is man written, just trust God and ask him about sex before marriage." That sounds all good and great, but do you honestly think God is going to say one day in the middle of the night, "Yes, it's okay." Or, "No, it's not." God doesn't work like that. You just have to know he's there with you, and make the decision for yourself.
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