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My boyfriend is moving away...
Hey, today I just got a boyfriend! Im really hapy! But, also I didnt want this to happen... He's moving away on Thursday. People say that if your 13 you dont know what love is, or you cant be in love.. But I really think im in love. Ive liked alot of boys(never had a boyfriend though! Just had a crush!) and I liked them, But this guy... He just gets into my thoughts!! Im trying to be strong, Im trying not to show that im sad, so that it wont make it any harder on him... Its so hard. Im really trying.. I really am. Please help me! I need advice!
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I really dont want to show him I'm sad. It would just make the move alot worse. I'm not a person that lets herself cry, I havent cried in 4 years. I know alot of you are thinking: She cant be in love, shes only 13. Or she just started dateing him, she cant be in love! But I've known him for 3 years and every scince I frist met him Ive had a big crush on him. But after one year I couldnt get him out of my thoughts. Well I getss he is going to come down here every break
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I don't think its love. It could develop into love, but on the 1st day? If he's moving away, you can show him that your sad. Nothing wrong with emotions. Life goes on, and what has to happen will happen. Stay strong no matter what. Another boy will always come along and give you butterflies you've never felt before.
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i think you cant be in love at 13. just wait until you hit high school. it will be so much harder
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Wow, this is really tough on you. I fell for a guy this summer, and it was like a long distant thing, and lets just say I got really hurt and felt as sad as you probarbly feel.
Okay - so he is moving. Make the most of these last days, and do you know what? It's ok show him your sad, it's okay to show him how you feel, chances are, he probarbly feels pretty down about it too. It's not natural to just smile and pretend you're pretty fine - when someone you love is moving and you may not see him again. Be yourself!
Make the most of the time you have, he's your first boyfriend. Kiss, take pictures and just have fun. I really understand where you are coming from - whatever you do , when he goes - keep in contact - be be friends, because that's all it will ever be. We tried to be something, and it just didn't work. It didn't feel the same, he found someone else, and it pretty much hurt when he told me he didn't like me as much, and he likes someone else.
He probarbly feels as down as you are. Spend the time together. enjoy it, have fun - otherwise you WILL regret it..for a long time . When he is gone, you are going to think about him,you are going to be down - but just situate around your friends and have a positive attitude because things will get better I promise. I am going through the same thing, you just got to make the most of the time you have and if you need to talk - that's why you have friends. I remember crying hyterically for an hour with my best friend :( So yeah, it may sound like it's goning to make you miserable but its called honesty. PLEASE inbox me for anything else, if you need advice I'd be happy to help
Sadie
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