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Hey im 14 my bfs 16.
he cheated on my last yr with a girl i thot was my friend she gave him oral sex. i found out 3months after it had happend but i couldnt leave him he said thts the only thing tht happend and it only happend 1 time. but i have not been able to get over it i think about it sometimes and get so mad at him and i start being really mean to him i cant help idk what to do cuz every since then hes changed and is so good to me he dont tlk to any girls and dosnt even go to friends houses but i just cant let what he did go what should i do??
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Its natural to feel that way, its hard to accept cheating, hes your man, not the girls that cheated with him. Did you ever fully talk about the situation? Meaning did you ever fully express all of your feelings toward him? Often times when we have alot of repressed feelings inside us, its because we never let them out. You should talk to him about how you feel, explain to him everything you told me. Your not going to get over this right away, which is okay. Just think, you could have easily left him, but you didnt; is there a reasoning behind that? Maybe because you two still really like each other. I know you wish this didnt happen, he does too, but it did, and he made a HUGE mistake. But everyone gets second chances I believe, and this is his. He should start counting his lucky stars because your one of them, hes lucky to have such a forgiving girlfriend. From what you said, it seems like hes seriously focused on you and only you, especially because he doesnt even talk to girls anymore.
On the contrary, that could also be the reason why you are so filled with emotions. Just because hes acting better to you, doesnt mean the situation is the same, its completely different. How do you feel about the fact that he doesn't go over his friends houses anymore? Or the fact that he doesnt talk to girls? It sounds to me like maybe you just want everything to be the way it is again, just without the cheating. Talk to your boyfriend, and ask him if he is okay with not going over his friends house. If he can control himself, then let him go. This is where trust comes in, you need to trust him that he will be faithful. I know you are thinking you already trusted him, but this is his second chance remember? And if you two are deciding to continue this relationship, then he has to have friends to, so be it if they are girls and guys, thats just life. As long as you trust him it will be okay for you. I think you might find that you will feel so much better once everything is back to the status quo.
Good luck! Let me know how this works out for you, Im here for you!!! Thanks for the inbox :-)
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