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pretending to be o.k.


Question Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 2:09 pm

I am really worried everytime at church the adults there always ask me so how are you doing. And deep down inside there is conflict that is happening between me and my mom but If I told them about it I am afraid that I would make it worse cause my mom does not want me to tell. I am afraid that if I tell I would sound like I was embarassing my family. I want to say that I really do not want to be talking about how I am doing right now. But then it would be rude right. But at the same time those people that asks me how I am doing sounds concern so what would be a more polite thing to do. Cause I am not comfortable pretending things are o.k.

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missaprilshowers answered Monday August 31 2009, 10:16 am:
That is a sticky situation. Tell them that you have "been better" or are "sticking in there." Their both very polite ways to let the person know who is asking that you aren't as well as you could be, but at the same time you don't want to give a whole lot of detail. Usually with replies like that, they don't ask for more details. It kinda says it all. I hope you start to feel better soon. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. If you ever need to talk about ANYTHING, feel free to send me a message.

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