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Its me once again lol...the I STILL <3 HIM girl.


Question Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 8:33 pm

Here to give you an update...I might as well tell you my name since I'll be inboxing you lol, I'm Keri. Okay I did what you said I gave my ex a letter telling him exactly how I felt and he told me he really appreciated it and it meant so much to him. He told me he loved me too and he wants to hang out at tomorrow (hooray lol)!! Do you think I should mention anything about us (if we actually have a future together again), or should I try to kiss him or something?? I don't want to seem like I'm trying to pressure him or anything. Maybe I should just go with the flow of things.

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Tuesday August 25 2009, 9:24 pm:
hahaa hey keri :]
Alright so ... wow that went well :] ! yayy ! I am sooo happy for you, you don't even knoww.
In my honest opinion, I think he's going to ask you to get back together with him when you guys hang out. I DEFINETLY think asking him about the whole "us" thing is a good idea, because you have a right to know ... but do it towards the end of the night, not the beginning, so you guys aren't being all serious beforehand, yuh know ?
And for the kissing part, see how it goes. If you guys seem to be really flirty and he keeps staring at your lips and seeming like he wants to kiss you, then do it ... but I think you should attempt that AFTER you ask him about the future and what it holds for you both together.
It won't be pressuring him if you just pay attention to his body language and ease into it, not go full blast into anything hahaa, because that would freak him out and/or pressure him into doing something he might not totally be comfortable with. So, just go with the flow. See how hanging out with him goes, and most importantly, HAVE FUN. don't think about it so much. He already said he loves you and that your letter meant alot to him, which is soooo superduper good, by the way. :] you'll be fine, i have a really good feeling about the two of you :] he wouldn't ask you to hang if he didn't want to, trust me.
good luck ! have funnn, and you BETTER tell me how it goes :] xxo.

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