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Lost Love
Ok here goes I'm 21 yrs old female and I've been really thinking something over lately. Over a year ago I meet what I thought at the time my dream guy.And almost instantly we held some things in common. We cliqued so well, I mean my family adored him, and he did so many things for me. We were togeather adleast three or four times a week. And he and my brother became bestfriends. Before we were togeather. I was in an verbally and physically abusive relationship. So when I meet him I thought I was in heaven. But a year later, he left me after an argument. He never even told me it was over, he just quickly moved on with his life and later he started dating his ex girlfriend again, whom his mother adored. Which I think she had ahand in getting them back togeather in the first place cause, she never really cared for me anyway. And now he and his ex girlfiend stay togeather. It's been over a year since we've seen each other or spoken but, it's not a day that he doesn't run threw my mind. I must admit that I'm still in love with him and, even though he and his current is staying togeather. I haven't giving up the fact that we will reunite one day. I can't even have a healthy relationship because, I don't want anyone but he. I find myself bitter alot, and actully hating the women he is with now. Cause I wish it was I. I was a great girl to him and I can't believe he just left me. Please tell me, am I wasting my time, or is there some sort of hope. Thank you.
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Honestly I am in the same situation right now except the guy i think i am madly in love with slept with my best friend. I forgave him and we started talking again but now we are arguing again. there is no reason to let yourself hurt for one guy. you are only 21 and there will be a guy that comes into your life that you couldnt imagine losing and you will look back on the situation and laugh. I still sit here and find myself imagining what life would be like if we were together and hope that he will fall for me as hard as I have fallen for him. I love him soooo much but the saying if you love them let them go is true. dont waste your time you deserve better then that. it will hurt like hel* at first but just be strong and stick to it, you will feel much better about yourself and other people will see that and be able to come into your life. you cannot be happy with anyone until you are happy with yourself dont let him make you wait.... start moving on, i have faith in you and good luck! if you ever need to talk my email is tarebear_whinery17@hotmail.com
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